Weddings at Holy Cross
Want to get married at Holy Cross?
Wonderful. Here's what you need to know.
Requesting a Date. Wedding dates at Holy Cross are often booked nine months or more in advance. Except in extraordinary circumstances all engaged couples must complete the Holy Cross Pre-Cana (marriage preparation) program before celebrating the Sacrament of Matrimony with us. As this process can take four to six months, delay can cause troublesome complications. Please fill out and submit our Wedding Inquiry form (click on the above red button) as far in advance as possible of your desired wedding day, and let's get the process started.
Our Pre-Cana couples who live in the Twin Cities area are highly encouraged to attend Holy Cross for Sunday Mass during their engagement period, and warmly invited to join our parish, especially so if you live in Nordeast!
Non-parishioners: $1150 (includes use of church and bridal room, wedding coordinator, and also defrays expenses related to our formation and preparation program). Additional fees include organist and cantor ($350) and altar servers for the wedding Mass (preferred two but minimally one at $25 per). There is also a weekend retreat (a Friday evening and 9a-5p Saturday) required by the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis, Living God’s Love, with a fee of $200, payable to the Archdiocese.
Parishioners (where Holy Cross/Clement/Hedwig/St. Anthony is the family parish, or either bride or groom has been registered at least one year prior to initial inquiry): $650 (includes use of church and bridal room, and also defrays expenses related to our formation and preparation program). Additional fees include organist and cantor ($350) and also for servers (preferred two but minimally one at $25 per). There is also a weekend retreat (a Friday evening and 9a-5p Saturday) required by the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis, Living God’s Love, with a fee of $200, payable to the Archdiocese.
REHEARSAL AND WEDDING START TIMES.
Saturday weddings begin 2pm at latest.
Friday weddings begin no later than 430pm.
The church will be open three hours before the wedding. The Marian Bridal Center is open four hours before the wedding start time.
Rehearsals for Saturday weddings are held on the previous Friday at no later than 5pm.
Rehearsals for Friday weddings are held on the previous Thursday at no later than 5pm.
MARRIAGE PREPARATION (“PRE-CANA”) AT HOLY CROSS
Initial meeting with priest.
Pre-Cana Cohort mini-retreats. Consisting of three Sundays (3pm-830pm with Sunday evening Mass and dinner provided), these mini-retreats are for all couples preparing for marriage in Holy Cross parish in the respective calendar year. You’ll get to meet and know the other couples in your cohort. Good friendships often come from these events. Each retreat focuses on a different topic relating to Christian marriage in the Catholic Church. The topics are
1. “The Meaning of ‘Consent’ in the Marriage Law of the Catholic Church”
2. “Christian Life and the Catholic Church: Forgiveness and Renewal”
3. “Sexual Union and Procreation in Married Love”
Fully Engaged Pre-marital Inventory. This online survey will take you through a range of crucial issues of married life, from the practical to the psychological and spiritual, in order to highlight issues for reflection and conversation. The results of the survey will help guide your conversations with your assigned Mentor Couple.
Mentor Couple Program. From three to five one-hour evening meetings (as necessary) with experienced parish married couple who help to explore the results of the Pre-marital inventory.
Archdiocesan Living God’s Love retreat. This retreat is required by the Archdiocese of St. Paul and Minneapolis for all couples planning to be married in the Church here in the Twin Cities area. They take place one weekend per month, on a Friday evening and the following Saturday from 9am through the Sunday anticipatory Mass at 5pm. Click here for dates, registration, and additional information about this retreat.
Liturgy planning meeting with priest and parish organist.
Subsequent one-on-ones with priest as needed.
Socialization in the parish through volunteering. Our Holy Cross Pre-Cana couples are invited and encouraged to meet parishioners and get to know the parish more deeply from the inside by volunteering for service in at least one of our numerous parish large events throughout the year, for example, Septemberfest, Lenten Fish Fry (every Friday evening during Lent). We will post you on these events through our email group communications platform, known as FLOCKNOTE.
Baptismal Certificate issued within 6 months of the wedding from the church of baptism.
Marriage License from appropriate surrounding Twin Cities metro counties (discount available with certificate of marriage preparation which Holy Cross will provide to you)